Are you feeling stuck with making a big, important decision? Have you already thought through all your options, and are you struggling with choosing between them? Perhaps it all feels perplexing and too heavy and you keep circling through the same thoughts and feelings. The following article offers you a step-by-step guide on how to be thorough, yet get out of the circle and progress with your decision.
Picture the following dialogue in a tense relationship:
A: Look, if you were different, things wouldn´t have got this bad. Sorry, but this is your fault: you are so stubborn!
B: You are so right. Now that you say it, I can see that it really is my fault. I am going to work on it from now on. Thanks for telling me and helping me improve.
Does that sound familiar to you? Unlikely. In real life, statement A will not lead to statement B.